Nafs e ammara kya hai, what is Nafs-e-Ammarah: there is a test of the nafs at home. Do we raise our voice in an argument and feel nothing?
Until we behave the same way outside and inside, in the mosque and at home, there will be no peace at home. There is a litmus test for it.
Raising our voice in an argument at home, insulting someone, planning a clever argument just to win, and knowing inside that it is wrong. If there is not even a sense of it, that is the worst state of the nafs, Nafs-e-Ammarah.
Run your own litmus test tonight.
Meesaq Ep 2, Shaykh Shahzad Arif.
